They don't care about security. They want to sit on the couch, watch Oprah and eat pork rinds all day. As long as they get the vagina tingles but don't have to read mean things on Twitter, they are ok.
Let's have a discussion, don't put words in my mouth.
If you understood my post, the passage "...They have to be secure, and they have to do everything in their power to provide a safe environment for their offspring, and that sometimes involves choices that a man would be loathe to make..." would speak volumes.
To say women are not rational is nonsense.
However, it is most decidedly not nonsense to say they are not rational in the exact same way that men are. Women operate on a different rationality calculus than men do.
Like a Venn diagram with intersecting circles, there are areas between men and women that overlap and allow us to live together. But there are places where they don't generally overlap.
Understanding that there are places in rationality between men and women that don't generally overlap is the key to harmony..and essential to it.