You sound like a balanced person on these issues. I respect that a great deal. What do you think of this video? This doesn't seem like a memory issue to me. Parents not knowing what grade their kid is in. " https://www.bitchute.com/video/HfXwb7ZV6Zee/
Obviously I have no way of knowing.... but I will observe that they appear to be grandparents, not parents. My child was a grand who we adopted. When we adopted him we made a serious effort to be real family, and we worked really hard on that. Always going places as a family, having him involved in any and everything. Attending every single baseball game, band concert, scout meeting with him. We were very "intentional" parents. Not every grandparent who takes on their grands is like that.