“And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” Ephesians 6:4
If I told you what I had to witness between her and her many boyfriends (while she was married) I think you’d agree that I was provoked. And she told me that if I told my bio dad, she would kill me.
But the command to you, doesn't make any exception for her disobedience.
I don't doubt that you are justified in being provoked to wrath.
But your choice is clear.
Which person do you want to be?
Sorry, I meant to say if I told the guy who I thought was my dad, she would kill me. I was a kid and I believed her.