but this "man" doesn't want to end the marriage but wants to pick and choose which parts he'll follow....
my new opinon...she should run the hell away asap.....that guy will hold her affair over her head for her and her child's entire life...
split...do it before any more harm to the not wanted child...
OF COURSE he’s likely not going to be able to let it go. She had another man’s child. Every time you lay eyes on the kid your spouse had with somebody else while married to you its like a fresh slap in the face.
That’s why you need to leave immediately if your spouse cheats on you. Any trust that ever existed in the relationship is completely destroyed.