is he a man or a mouse?.....
if he loves his wife, and they had some sort of "counseling" and he wants to stay married, then man up OR just get the hell out of town...
really tired of wimpy people that can't make a decision except make life miserable for the cheating wife and the innocent kid....
get out or get on with life...
Best solution: divorce the wife, get the kid adopted by a stable family.
First rule of lifesaving: save yourself first.