Well, if you don’t like the simple solution, i.e,,getting rid of the problem, you will have to go to plan “B” That is to fix yourself. It is a little more complicated but can be done in two ways, see your Dr and get a Testosterone shot for Low T, or develop a set of cojones for yourself. I say this because you are a man bleating on a public message board about your lack of ability to be the leader in your marriage That is female behavior and you should be ashamed of yourself. You are failing both as a man and as the head of your family.
You actually believe there's a shot for "Low T"? Sorry to disappoint you, but that's not on your horizon anytime soon.
That you equate gun storage with masculinity very clearly indicates that you don't have the vaguest idea what's involved in being a man.
Absolutely stunning that a grown "man", even if he's never been in a sustained relationship with a woman, or even another fella, thinks that where one stores his gun is the indicator or being a man.
This country is going to hell and you're a leading flag bearer.
I'm only glad that solely the most degenerate young people would look at you as a role model.