Get a new wife.
Yeah, 30 plus years, 2 well raised kids, supporting each other through thick and thin, being madly in love, a community of relationships...
I should leave my life's partner over an issue of gun storage contention.
Really?
I'd bet the mortgage that you've never had a respectable relationship with another human of any gender.
I pray your life turns around. There is such a thing called "True Love" and my Christian Heart breaks that you've moved so long into life that you feel comfortable weighing in on the topic of marriage that, yet you've never experienced the feeling of love from the opposite sex, or, possibly your own sex.
There REALLY is love out there beyond the issue of gun storage, and perhaps this post is the blessing to make you realize that.
No thanks needed, just be a fountain, not a drain, and may God Bless your soul and Shine Into your life.
Get an even smaller handgun, then lie like hell.