Well, I have known so many women who were abused by men, beaten, drugged and raped, MURDERED, left with kids and no income, left so far in debt they ended up in a women’s shelter with their kids but I wouldn’t make a blanket comment about all men.
It would be safe to assume that the kids went to foster homes and that one to the cemetery.
Women need to be every bit as careful as the men. There are monsters in both sexes. I found that the more beautiful people tend to be the ugliest inside.
“I have known so many women who were abused by men, beaten, drugged and raped, MURDERED, left with kids and no income, left so far in debt they ended up in a women’s shelter with their kids but I wouldn’t make a blanket comment about all men.”
You just described a large percentage of alpha men—comes with the territory.
If women want to avoid this, they will have to settle for the betas—much lower prestige with their peers, much less attractive and charismatic and “exciting” guys, but they usually treat their women with respect and in it for the long term.
From your screen name and postings, I'm guessing you're a divorce lawyer who mainly represents women.
I've known several divorced men, and generally it's the wife who seeks divorce so she can "trade up" (and very often her ambitions are not up to reality) or just wants to "cash out" of the relationship.