There is a truth in life: An moderately good looking woman who has an attractive personality and genuinely likes the company of men (and not just in the carnal sense) will never lack for a man to have a relationship with.
I remember back in the day, you would go to a party, and there would be a girl surrounded by men. She might not be in the top 30-40 percent of attractive women, but she has an inner attractiveness, an appreciation of men for who they are, and a welcoming smile on her face.
Men would flock to a woman like that as flies to honey.
I recall hearing people (both men and women) speculate on this, and there were a number who thought it was because she was “loose” or “put out”, but as a man, I did not see it that way.
She had a good, pleasant personality, simply liked men, and didn’t make it all about herself.
Some women would be puzzled by it. But some (like my wife) understood that dynamic quite well.
This woman is a good looking woman. If she had even a modicum of genuine appreciation for anything but herself (and an even moderate inner attractiveness) I have no doubt she would be in high demand past a first date. Hell, she probably would get some guy who would woo her like mad after the first date, and might never get back into the dating scene before she got into the long term relationship scene.
And this is even taking into account the probability of genuine likely widespread weirdness of male-female relationships in men due to the deliberate and heavy cultivation of that...weirdness...by society today.
Great post.
Some folks have the natural talent, but everyone can improve on being someone others want to be around.