No “unless” at all.. even if she took a morning “hit”... then I still wish her rest and peace. I was probably raised a little bit differently than some. We were taught the saying, “There but for the Grace of God go I”. This simply was a saying that we may not understand or be in someone’s position but to feel sympathy even with our lack of understanding the “why”. Not sure if I am explaining it correctly but I do wish her peace.
There’s far too many people committing suicide these days as if it’s an acceptable way to deal with whatever issues cause someone to do this to themselves. But I would agree that those who know the Lord likely can handle much better than those who don’t.