I cannot believe you described him as a SHE! Don’t buy into their ridiculous perversion of the language. If you do, you are subtly buying into this insanity.
He is a HE, period, end of story. He can put on women’s clothes and pump himself full of drugs, but HE is a HE. HE is NOT a “she.” So call the person a HE.
That drives them nuts. Of course, if you do that at work, you may find yourself on the street forthwith.
No, HE'S not a woman.