The video was odd... she said she kept apologizing to him because of her OCD and that she was in a bad mood. She also said she was trying to get her blog running and I think she mumbled he didn’t believe she could? I don’t know... I’ve told all three of my kids that if a relationship EVER turns physical.. LEAVE. Right then and now. I have a gal friend in a married relationship that sounds so much like her... defending him by “soft blaming” her own actions (for example, I’m not very lovey when I am tired and that annoys him). I’m hoping for the best for this young woman.
I’m in complete agreement. Fortunately for me, my wife didn’t start physically beating me until just before she filed for divorce :-)
That was 24 years ago and her current long-term relationship is constant physical turmoil. Meanwhile, mine is absolute Bliss of a type I never knew it was possible.