A shrink friend once told me that people who end up with someone who closely resembles them are narcissists who are secretly in love with themselves, hence the attraction to someone who looks like them. Who knows if there’s any truth to that?
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IMO and from experience, most secular shrinks are friggin weirdos…narcissists themselves who love thinking they can figure anyone out..
Most couples do wind up looking like each other. There is good reason having nothing to do with narrciisim.
Even Mary Matilin now looks like James Carville.