I understand completely. The beaches in NorCal and parts of Oregon may be ok, I don’t know, but they may be too cold for snowflakes. I have some family and friends I’d like to visit in California but I’m not sure about the restrictions and everything. Maybe I’ll stick to Nevada and I don’t know how that is.
I wasn’t saying your husband is a snowflake, just to be clear.
One 9f my favorite beaches was goat rock, where the Russian River emptied into the Pacific. I guess there were some strange murders there in the past, but it seemed ok when I went there.