I share that mindset. I'm out of cheeks to turn, and I ain't giving up the aft cheeks to nobody!
Love doesn’t mean you have to be nice.
Some people just need punishment. It can be administered with love in the heart, as it is good for them.
And keep one’s distance. Love the soul, but because he (or she, as the case may be) is in darkness, I can hate their thoughts, speech and actions. And be happy when they get what they deserve.
Deuteronomy 7:2
And when the LORD thy God shall deliver them before thee; thou shalt smite them, [and] utterly destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them, nor show mercy unto them