The marital status of either party is immaterial since there was no implied guarantee that impulsive sex of two casually known individuals, ie. a one-night stand, would result in an intimate relationship beyond that first encounter. When you play the Devil’s game of ‘sexual equality’ and lust, don’t be surprised if the devil has some tricks in store for you. One cannot be a harlot on Monday and a ‘violated little lady’ on Wednesday if a one-night stand with a stranger on Monday doesn’t result in a relationship. Pick one and take personal responsibility for the choice.
I kicked her out 17 years ago.