Here’s my suggestion.
Neither.
How about Alabama?
PROS:
Lowest property taxes in the nation, and they do not tax pensions.
VERY conservative, religious, friendly and beautiful landscape and scenery.
Huntsville to become Space Force HQ.
No gun laws to speak of, and it is law that Alabama won’t follow new 2nd Amendment restrictions from FedGov.
CONS:
Hot and humid in Summer.
Racial divisions in Birmingham, Montgomery, Mobile and Huntsville (but countryside peaceful and harmonious even between the races).
Government by “Good Ole Boy” corruption in some locales.
Not much night life or big city culture.
Not much night life or big city culture.
To me, that should fall under Pros.
My daughter had a teacher from Alabama. I loved her style and how she taught the class. All the children came out of that class addressing the adults with either yes ma’am or yes sir. That’s huge deal in a liberal area where I live. I loved it!
Where’s the most conservative big city in the U.S. with night life and everything you’ll find in a big city? I’ll say Miami due to Cubans living there.