In reference to your post, I was listening to David Webb on the sat radio yesterday morning. He said something that made a lot of sense, and I can tie it in with what you said. He said (paraphrased)...
“If your whole life is defined by one event, then you have shown that you have not grown or matured since that time - that you haven’t learned anything since”.
And yes, if we look at one point in life as that event, and shape the rest of our life around it, we really aren’t growing, we aren’t learning, we aren’t accepting other events or activities as being important.
Now, sometimes, an event leaves a huge scar or emptiness on us and it takes a long time to grow beyond it, to heal one’s self, to realize that while it was bad or intense, it wasn’t meant to stop us from living and moving on. We can always remember the deceased family member, the loss of a loved one, the house fire, the car wreck, the job loss, the breakup - anything like that, but we need not obsess over such things.
Right now at: 103.145.13.229
An operation in Chechnya is trying to infect Ransomware on as much of the USA as possible.
It is getting past some of the commercial firewalls.
Remove “admin” from your router login or at least disable.
All they need to do is ping on 192.168.1.1 with “admin” password and just keep banging until they guess the password.
This has been going on since Saturday worldwide