It’s really sad to me when people ignore what it really means to be “gay”. I tell people, hey, if your date prep is an enema, something should be telling you that ain’t right.
It’s revolting. The reality is kept hidden. Women, your hairdresser who is so “hilarious” likely did stuff with a dozen guys the night before. Hilarious. So funny. Will and Grace is not reality, the 2003 documentary, The Gift, is closer to the truth. Kenboy and Bill were real, Mitch and Cam on Modern Family are not.