Never considered you a derp. I am 100% against taxpayer subsidies for couples or single parents. I think one should plan to pay for their own children. My point was there are ways that couples can adjust their work schedules if both must work so that one parent or the other can be with the children.
Before deciding to have children, it would be prudent to have a plan to pay for and raise the child.
“Before deciding to have children, it would be prudent to have a plan to pay for and raise the child.”
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People plan for that???
Yells to husband... “HONEY????? DID YOU KNOW PEOPLE PLAN STUFF?”
I do agree that one should pay for their own children. We never got to plan.. number one came sooner than expected. And we had nothing. Seriously lol.. a giant spool from the naval yard for a table, a mattress covered with a blanket for a couch hahaha.. bricks and wood for book case. Then we got a tv. I came home one night to an awesome stereo and looked at my cheap a$$ wedding ring and said.. “Well, that will cost you for the rest of your life” hahahahhaha
The best laid plans of mice and men, right? I keep planning and things keep happening not according to my plans. Rats.. foiled again.
Petey