Near impossible to find these days I would venture- Even i n the Christian realm- Seen many people who claimed to be Christians just up and walk away from their marriages- some even turning gay and walking away- Who wants to invest years of their life, and have someone do that to them?
Marriage has always been a gamble of course- but in this day and age- it’s a serious problem with many many more people calling it quits, and ruining the other person financially, and ruining their reputations in the process as well- Years ago- people were much more apt to try to work it out- even if it meant going to counselors to do so- but nope- not today- one person gets bored- and off they go- people are just a lot more selfish these days than they used to be by and large-
I’ve observed this phenomenon I’ll dub “sister-whispering”, where friends, relatives, co-workers, etc. of the woman can have huge undue outside influences on a relationship. The momentum in this direction is so great and gravity of the situation is such that the more “friends” she has, the more potential there is for a failed relationship with a man who would otherwise be good enough for any woman.