Now that you explain it, I agree with you. Speaker should be courteous and able to corral congressvermin of different natures and shades. That’s what politics so so nauseating.
Frankly, I don’t know how the “good guys” and gals do it - can you imagine going to work each day and half (or more) of your co-workers are trying to destroy your company or steal from it? They need prayers for sure.