I hope the hammer smashes her.
Same would apply in the civilian world.
I wear a uniform at my job and know better than to act like a bucket of stupid in public. While in uniform, I’m a representative of my place of employment.
It was the same when I wore my Navy uniform in public.
I behaved.
God bless you. I was never in the military. I work in a hospital in southern NJ. I’m a porter. I have to wear a uniform. My usual assignment is the ER. The county jail is just down the road from us. Get a lot of inmates come in. They’re always under guard by two corrections officers so they tend to keep their mouths shut. But the general public can be a handful. Drunks especially. And meth heads.
Women drunks and meth heads are the worst. Fat, foul mouthed, and violent. I’ve never had too much directed at me but the nurses, they get some abuse thrown at them. It’s tough for me to have to watch it happen. The nurses won’t always tolerate it and I don’t either. On a rare occasion I’ve told one or men to watch their mouth but I have been told to not say anything.
The nurses I work with, a number of them young women appreciate it though, they’ve told me many times. Honest to God though, male or female you just want to haul off and belt one of these drunken aholes right in the mouth.
I tried, but alcohol sometimes blurred where the "behave" line was. Never crossed it enough to end up at Captain's Mast, but...definitely walked close a few times.