Sorry to hear of that sad situation that you and your family are going through. The change in her behavior sounds like something has changed, meds perhaps? Hope things improve.
My mom is 96 and has been in assisted living since my dad died in 2015. Surprisingly she hasn’t complained a bit about the lockdown even for the several weeks they were confined to their apartments even for meals after care workers developed symptoms (but tested negative for covid, thankfull). Her attitude is good and now they eat together but only one person to a table, six feet apart, which I think has the side benefit of cutting down the usual level of griping and complaining ;-)
The last thing I want is for visitors to be allowed back in and someones relative ends up exposing the seniors to the virus. Temp checks should be mandatory, this is the population that should be protected because we know they are most at-risk.
Best wishes to your dad, who sounds like a fine man.
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