The response from many to your story would be that you got to have all your “fun,” but you don’t want others to enjoy themselves. My reply to that is, if this is so much fun, why are young people so unhappy?
Your right. I had my fun during the ‘safe period’ before aids, etc.
But even then there was a sense of sadness with all the casual sex. each person has their own level of bonding or ‘love’ resulting from the sexual encounter. Since there was no time to actually get to know, appreciate, respect, etc the other person and vise versa and it was over leaving each with a different sense of hollowness and regret.
It did not really slow me down much as bodily needs resurface after a few hours. But it did tell me that if they are lying about free love, drugs, no commitment then what else were they lying about. As a result of this inquiry I become a conservative. Never been happier