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To: Lakeside Granny

It IS heartbreaking.
That is known as “failure to thrive.”
They must be fed from that point on.
I’m sorry that this is happening in your family.
I went through this with my Dad.

He was in assisted living at first-one day when
I went to see him, he was really searching my face.
Then he said “Honest to God, I don’t know who you are.”
My heart turned upside down, because then I knew he
was well and truly lost.

To this day, I don’t know how I held it together until
after our visit.
When I got into my car, I began sobbing, and I didn’t
stop for a very long time.

Thanks for the anniversary wishes!


366 posted on 06/02/2020 10:23:13 AM PDT by MS.BEHAVIN (Women who behave rarely make history)
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To: MS.BEHAVIN

Thanks for sharing. I’ve often wondered about this in life. Forgetting. I would imagine you have given it hours of thought. You’ve been blessed with understanding and a calling. What an enriched life you have MSBEHAVIN. God certainly has shined down on you. Hugs.


375 posted on 06/02/2020 10:32:58 AM PDT by STARLIT ("And those who were dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.".)
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To: MS.BEHAVIN

I remember Nancy Reagan calling it “The Long Goodbye.”

It truly is.

I realized last Nov. that my sister no longer knew me and I said my last goodbye to her then.

I choose to remember how she was in happier times.

So sorry that you had to go through it with your dad.


387 posted on 06/02/2020 10:51:29 AM PDT by Lakeside Granny (Vote RED~R.emove E.very D.emocrat~D&S)
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To: MS.BEHAVIN

I remember my poor dad the first time my mom didn’t know who he was. He dialed the phone so she could talk to me. She told me there was a strange man in her house and he was trying to say he was her husband.


478 posted on 06/02/2020 2:03:26 PM PDT by Rusty0604 (2020 four more years!)
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