If it’s your 2nd marriage I agree. BTW just passed the 40 year milestone with my 1st and only wife:-)
Just married the widow of one of my best friends in the world. They married as kids, he made good money as a banker and was frugal. He left her a pretty big stash of marbles, which by all rights should go to their son . . . at least what is not needed to live on. I am a banker also, but had to start over after a divorce 18.5 years ago. I was well along toward building some assets that I wanted to pass along to my sons. He left her in such good shape, she was more than willing to agree to allow me to continue along that plan, and we signed a pre-nup to that effect. It only made sense to me. And we both still work. I am 63. They don't come any better than my new wife. She is an awesome lady!! I am blessed indeed!!