Not sure why you are suggesting they only did that for dead people- long exposure times were very common in the old days and peopel often had to have soemthing to rest their heads agaisnt to keep from moving as best as possible- you will also note that not al ot of folks were smiling in the old photos- which likely was because they couldn't hold the smile for that length of time without moving their lips or mouths- it is claiemd- which is entirely possible. Also- photographers used heavy makeup
Long exposure times were, of course, for everybody. Only the dead were all made up to look like weird dolls. Living people who were photographed were not made up. They just had to sit still. That is my contention.