[Vipper]

Very nice that your family lives close and you have these big holiday get togethers.

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They actually don’t on my side. They currently are in Juno, Omaha, Broward County FL, Laramie, Seattle, Sun City, etc.

This was my last year at the farm though I already told my kids I won’t do it again. He was too nasty his family will have to tell the others in WI about him living with the girlfriend next year for the last few years, I won’t do it again no matter how much the kids beg.

He’s coming to my mom’s on Xmas eve and I’ll be at his parents Christmas Day, but this is the end of it this year. He tried to get out of my daughters graduation last week and then proceed to get totally shit faced while there and drove. Girls had to escort him to his room at the hotel after we were playing games in the bar. Straight up Jameson 15 or 18 yr, double shots times 8-10 times after his straight up Tito’s at the restaurant before hand.

This will be the last Christmas as a family as I can not do this anymore. He hasn’t lived here for 2 years this January and yet they want everything to remain the same. It just can’t happen anymore, I have always had low blood pressure all my life and now it’s running between 153 over 100 and 167 over 110. I am 5’ 8/9” and only 108 lb’s I am a stick figure. It will kill me if I keep trying for them anymore. I am done...

[Lakeside Granny]

I can’t say as I blame you.

Your health is definitely more important than keeping up appearances and what the rest of the family wants.

Hope life gets better and you can leave that worthless POS in the dirt.

I had one like him and it caused quite a bit of turmoil in mine and my kids life until they grew up and it was their decision to be around him or not.

The only good thing was his family was very supportive of me and still are.

Love them all.

[STARLIT]

I think its past time you need to think of yourself. You have touched many of us here on the Train sometime or another. And I'm a firm believer God puts his hand on us or gives us a push in a certain direction. I really believe he brought you to us for a reason. And speaking for myself...I think you gave me insight. Intuition or sixth sense is something I sometimes ignore. Its hard to pin point your gift in words but I do know you are very loved here. I feel very blessed among so many special friends. Many blessing to you vipper.

[exit82]

I am sorry to hear of your troubles,Vipper.

And that’s on top of the medical issues you have recently have dealt with.

I don’t have any words of wisdom as I have never walked in those shoes. It seems like you have sacrificed enough, and it is time to give yourself permission to strike out on a new path for your life.

We will always have your back on the Trump Train.

[hoosiermama]

Understand. (Hugs). You must look out for yourself. His actions are very similar to an abuser (control issues). Get a support group close by. I was 84 pounds when I finally filed for divorce. He had been having an affair with his best friends wife for years.