[STARLIT]

LG I don't think it will ever get better. We will always worry about them.

I use to wonder what our sons birth mom is thinking about him and wondering what kind of life he has had. I somehow think they go through worry with a capital W. Our son told us not long ago while we were out eating...why look for his birth mom or dad...we are his mom and dad. Most people would think how happy that should make us. I can't speak for my husband..but it did make me a little sad for the two who gave him up. Its really hard to put into words.

[Lakeside Granny]

I undwrstand a bit of what you are feeling.

Many years ago my hubby's dad signed the papers for his 1st born to be adopted, 25 years ago she found us.

We have been thankful and joyful ever since.

Youngest daughter has 2 adopted kids and the birth mother is a part of their family.

Everyone has to make these decisions for themselves.

It is very sweet that your son is so happy with you and your hubby he has no desire to search.

You both are wonderful parents.

Off to church.....