Not at all. Nothing I wrote even remotely conveys what you state. What I do state is that the pro’s and con’s are well known. The man made a CHOICE. His wife does not like the consequences of HIS CHOICE. This is NOT the problem of the Uniformed Services.
Well obviously it’s going to be a problem of the uniformed services if lots of good men just drop out. A husband and wife are one flesh so he’ll have to choose between the pros and cons of staying in or losing his wife.. Still he is just one man and the services can get along just fine without him, wouldn’t you say?
The uniform services need to treat their reservists and national guard better...or just go all full time and get rid of the reserve services.
I know how you meant to convey what you wrote, I was disagreeing with you!