Funny thing is:
These are the women you later encounter in a professional setting.
By then they’re desperate and the minute they think they have made a strong pass at you and you’re not interested..?
They WILL try to get you fired. I mean that even if you were super nice and simply played dumb.
They’ll be pissed as hell, like you slapped them in the face.
Silicon Valley and San Francisco are FILLED with this type of woman.
I am sure there are exceptions, but if a person has been single and never been in a serious long term relationship (sharing the same living space) and is closing in on 40 or over 40, odds that they will be able to engage in the selflessness that a long term relationship requires, is low indeed.
When you have been solo that long, you are generally too set in your ways, and used to doing whatever you want whenever you want, and answering to no one, to deal with the reality of the selflessness that is required.