“I’m a racist. You’re a racist. Donald Trump’s a racist. Nancy Pelosi was a racist until she attacked Trump for racism. Your neighbor’s a racist. Your insurance broker’s a racist. Your dentist’s a racist as well as your periodontist. All white males are racist. Some white females are racists, especially those married to white males. Everywhere a racist. “
Embrace the insult! That will render it useless.
The worst thing you can do is get defensive and cry “I’m not a racist”. Then they know they got a weapon they can bash you with and you’ll be spending all your time proving that you’re not.
Smile and say, yes “I’m a racist, deplorable, knuckle dragging, irredeemable, conservative Neanderthal... and then unload on them.
Call me a raysis and you’ll get back a ‘you bet your asz’