Do you remember Jesus telling you to forgive seventy times seven?
I do.
There’s no way any part of the church can progress towards a better execution of His will if that part heeds the catcalls of those who think it’s all about the church rather than all about God.
Forgiving is entirely different matter than a lack of trusting due to prior betrayal.
I don’t trust what he says now based on his past behavior/statements.