You do not get to rewrite the meaning of the word sexist. A sexist is someone who stereotypes women negatively, holds a discriminatory double standard where things acceptable for men are not acceptable for women; or holds a chauvinistic belief in the inferiority of women
sexist (adj.)
1965, from sex (n.) on model of racist, coined by Pauline M. Leet, director of special programs at Franklin & Marshall College, Lancaster, Pennsylvania, U.S., in a speech which was circulated in mimeograph among feminists. Popularized by use in print in Caroline Bird's introduction to “Born Female” (1968).