I never get in trouble with emils or texts nor will I ever get in trouble. Anyone is free to read anything I send out.
That is for one simple reason. Before I write anything I start it in my head with....Dear Jury,
It’s like the idiot teachers who are getting caught for sending nakeds to students with whom they are having a fling.
I learned a long time ago do not send anything electronically that you are not willing to stand on a street corner and shout. Crucial conversations should beheld face to face iron the phone
That said I have a clean conscience and my husband and adult kids have the passcode to my phone I have my husbands passcode. Never felt the need to use it