Ah, so you’re just being the devil’s advocate. Not a fetisher yourself. Sorry for that presumption, but can you really blame me in this thread?
But read the posts: the very fact these guys feel free to openly comment and quip to each other - as if it was a private conversation no less - about white females and yellow as well, indicates just how comfortable they are, thinking they are in a white-male environment (or at least, all male - black guys might also hold these opinions).
It is the same way I feel where I live (all my life, much worse in the last decade). Not only do I feel as a conservative, I better keep my mouth shut, but these commie libs here feel free to constantly glibly bring up politics in such a way that PRESUMES they will be speaking only to their comrades in liberalism. Work is a minefield of discussions openly about how bad Trump is, how we have to have abortion for our daughters, and how evil anyone is who doesn’t like enabling illegals and Moslems (as the college DOES). Even the bosses do it IN OFFICIAL CAPACITY, as if they KNOW they’re safe to talk like libs, because, you know, everyone here is a flaming lib!
So the guys here act - like they are in a bubble of guys only, mostly 100% white, etc.
Indeed, I am not. However, I’m not above looking to other countries either.
Everyone having their own circumstances, I blame none here.
Having read every post, the majority are addressing anyone who cares to read, as is standard for open forum. The rest are responses.
Though distasteful ( I certainly find it so), open discussion of sexual preferences and opinions is far from abnormal in current society.
It speaks more to comfort in ability to speak their minds than that everyone they speak to is white or male.
In fact, you’ll notice a faint theme in the comments.
For their troubles, and/or whatever else, they are expected to continue their search amongst the same, by the same.
They are judged immediately, presumed to be fetishists or undesirables, slandered by so called “friends” and acquaintances, maligned by others not even physically present, etcetera, if they do otherwise.
Men and women have always compared each other. The only thing different from history is women having their comparisons and opinions socially mainstreamed and made into law, many times to the detriment of men.
Which speaks volumes, whilst not straying far from historical views of women needing protection.
I will admit being guilty of turning to semi-anonymous forums to express opinions that would likely have disproportionate effects in my personal and professional life were they voiced. However, many posters here do this.
It’s an outlet used to voice an opinion that may or may not be popular, with the added benefit of finding like minds.
Can you really blame them?