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Best we can do for u from afar —- do get off the booze! Your health and well- bring is Job One. You can’t expect to dolce everything at once - especially problems involving other people.But you can start solving everything by fixing your own self — get off the damned booze. It weakens you and can destroy people’s entire lives. So if the rehab is any good - be happy you can do it! Second point, you May have a problem or two, but you don’t deserve to be beaten up by a man. I can understand a guy can get frustrated but it’s still inexcusable to beat up a woman imho. Two issues with that —- 1/ if your personal safety is in danger, it has to stop for sure - or you have to absent yourself from that danger at least until he appears to have gotten himself under control. So if your rehab is done place you’re going away to - that’s a good thing maybe. Husband needs to get himself repaired just like you are gonna do for yourself in dropping the booze. He MUST stop beating on you! Probably some professional help can assist him, please look around and see what’s available for him. He might say NO at first but many such men do understand inside themselves that this needs correcting - and he might eventually go for the help. Meanwhile keep in mind that you don’t deserve to be beaten up and obviously try to avoid such incidents as much as possible. Best,