Personally, I have never understood it at all. I was a gentleman in my dating days, but from a standpoint of more than casual dating, it didn’t make me any kind of Don Juan.
Not that I have a problem with that, I appreciate it, though being human, it was sometimes frustrating.
My mom and dad raised me that way, and I think I rarely did things that would make them ashamed of me, but I recall seeing a girl I really liked turn me down or ignore me, and go off with some guy who was a known dickhead.
But it served me quite well when I met my wife...:) I’ll take that!
I was a Don Juan with the chicks in my college days. The chicks “Don Juan” to date me!
“bang -— rim shot!
I got a million of’em
I’ll be here all week in the Naugahyde Room at the Bugtussle Holliday Inn!