So sorry to read this, Hildy - prayers out for him, you, and your whole family.
(BTW, while I understand wanting to put out a beautiful picture of you and your husband...
...since there are some unbalanced people out there lurking FR, perhaps erring on the side of anonymity would be good.)
Thanks for the head’s up. I am an elected official and I am totally non anonymous. I have been posting on Facebook since 1998 when my Dad brought me in. Everyone here grieved with me when he passed away in 2000. I feel like it’s family. (Especially the crazy ones.)