I’m sorry I forgot about the “funeral food”. As a courtesy, anyone who is able to cook, may bring a dish to the home where the family is gathering while arrangement are being made for the deceased. Sometimes the church will provide and serve the food and cleanup afterwards.
It is usually a reunion type thing composed of close friends and family members, and a meeting place for those arriving from out of town. There is always plenty of food and drink so no one in the home is burdened with cooking.
Yes, Texas is part of the South. I guess we take our Southern Hospitality for granted at times. Thanks for reminding me.
No need to apologize :-) To some unfamiliar, this might seem strange. Personally, consider it to be akin to a wake. A time for friends and family to catch up on one another and touch base with their roots. For many, the only time they get together like this is the funeral or per chance a wedding. Stories and anecdotes of the dearly departed are told, condolences are made, and even a few adult beverages are consumed.