Well, I thought this was about what Q posted. I didn't realize I was involved in nasty divorce proceeding. Good luck!
That is generally the focus, to be sure.
The focus can be approached from more than one angle, for example a person asserting a fact, but not providing evidence, or when there is evidence that contradicts the assertion. Then the subject shifts slightly.
You are the one who introduced the topic of me buzzing off. Guess you lost sight of what the thread is about.