This woman is a child herself in an adult body as far as I’m concerned.
If you live your life fixated on what could have been, you miss the joy of what is....
Another female screwed up by Sex and the City have it all feminist crapfest culture.
“If you live your life fixated on what could have been, you miss the joy of what is....”
That is a great point. Another point is her dream is a fantasy. There is no guarantee if she chose to turn left instead of right things would have worked out like she had dreamed.
I rarely think about what could have been if I had made a different decision. But on the occasions I do, a quickly realize that I am make a lot of assumptions that always go in my favor. I becomes clear I am wasting my time.
While in the Army I got divorced a became a single dad with three kids ages 5, 7, and 9. It was hard for a while, but I loved my kids, was thrilled I got them. And after a few years met my current wife (of 20 years). That was never the way I dreamed my life would go. Thought I be playing in the NFL. But I would not change a thing now that I have seen what was on the other side of a long, dark tunnel.
That's the first thing that occurred to me.
How many other female human beings were warped by watching that "harmless" entertainment, unaffected, apparently, by any guidance from mentally healthy and responsible adult parents.