What Q is doing for me and I think quite a few others is making us dig and learn. So, even when I despair, I’m good, cos I’m still learning.
(And now I might be able to win one political discussion wit #1 son! Thanks, Q!)
Don't presume such things. I've been there. Remember #1 son is smarter and wiser than you and will be so until age 39 or something.