One of my adult children told me she figured she has Aspbergers - total genius - IQ is probably way up there, loner, skilled and talented in many areas, no interest in stuff like shopping, parties, fashion, really anything the world considers success, is happiest when gardening, etcetec. Learned to read at 4, as I did.
Sounds like an absolutely wonderful child. So much congratulations on helping her become that person. You’re just as wonderful, you know.