I know how you feel.
Exasperating, isn’t it.
I console myself in the cheapest of manner....
When I see the really talented among us post their awesome pictures and the great “gifs”, on all these threads, I see that even they can not control the size of the thing! LOL! I mean, it could cover my patio. (Or, on my cell, I can’t see it at all.)
AND, some even get in trouble for it. lol! Hilarious! That is my cheap relief.