I’ve not made fun of her weight.
I was about her size before I changed my eating habits.
The issue I have is this. If ‘we’ are forced to accomodate her size, what about the 400lb people. Or the 500lb people.
Just how much more expensive will EVERYTHING be just because fat people can’t be bothered to just put down the food?
And it wasn’t a small request. Looking around at walmart, the entire ride would have been one person per bench before long. And weight distribution DOES matter even if the ride only purports to go 1mph.
I’ll give an example. Nowadays, every wheelchair and hospital bed at our local hospital is an ‘obese’ special. They are simply huge. How much do those cost? Who, exactly, eats that cost (pun intended). How much of our increase in medical bills are due to the ‘shared’ cost of fat people? Mind you, I think the medical field is responsible for keeping people fat (with bad bad dietary advice and meds that do nothing but generate body fat (insulin for example)) from a profit standpoint. At some point there will be a ‘give’ though.
But I’m back to my original point. Obesity shouldn’t be enabled or accomodated any more than drug addiction. ‘Giving’ her the seating she requested is accomodating and enabling.
Yes, she should be fat shamed. It works. When I literally got stuck in the chair in my OB’s office and stood up with chair affixed firmly to my posterior and had to get help to detach said chair it was a wakeup moment for me. I didn’t demand special seating for my fat ass. I stopped eating what I was eating. Low carb really does work. Ditto fasting. I’ve lost 30 more pounds since Thanksgiving doing the Jason Fung ‘plan’.
I suspect this particular lady doesn’t see anything wrong with her weight and probably wouldn’t diet if you asked her. She probably likes her size and likes eating. Not every fat person wants to be a thin person. I can respect that right up until they insist I pay for their ‘hobby’ in some way. Even if a minor inconvenience. I’ll gladly be inconvenienced for someone truly disabled. I will not be inconvenienced for an unrepetant food addict. That’s not being a friend to them.