[LambSlave]

there are a lot of guys who string along women for a long time without any intention of marrying them.

I see at least as many women unwilling to commit as guys; I don't know the answer. Women always think they can do better and won't settle, guys are afraid to lose all they've worked for in the courts.

[FLT-bird]

The best advice to give women who want to get married is:

Don’t wait until you’re in your 30s.

[Bruce Campbells Chin]

I see at least as many women unwilling to commit as guys; I don't know the answer. Women always think they can do better and won't settle, guys are afraid to lose all they've worked for in the courts.

That's completely true. But if a guy asks a girl to marry him, and she says "no" or "not right now -- I'm not ready to commit yet", I wouldn't blame the guy if he started dating other women to see if he can find someone who may be ready when he is.