That’s what I did. Worked like a charm.
Speaking as a guy, a man is not committed until, as Dr. Laura says, a ring and a wedding date.
And just why do some people assume the woman was sleeping around prior to getting married?
I have a very good female friend who divorced her then pastor husband when he was caught in the act with another woman, AT CHURCH, by his associate pastor.
She started dating this one guy for 5-6 months and he refused her demand to make a commitment, or she was breaking of their dating relationship. He wouldn’t so she did.
This was less than one month prior to Christmas. She made a very wise decision because at a rather large Christian singles Christmas party hosted by a friend of ours, she met her future husband, who happened to be a former pastor divorced by his wife. They hit it off immediately and were married about six months later. They are an awesome married couple.
Had she not stood her ground, she would have never met the love of her life.