No you just hang out at the wrong places. :-)
Hah - I haven’t been on the dating scene for a long time (been married 12 years) but I can assure you it has nothing to do with wrong places. Most of the “good places” have some of the dirtiest girls (eg: Church). The attractive single guys I know usually are getting sex on the first or second date no matter where they met them. And given how many times I’ve been propositions while married from the “good girls” and my experience with girls before I settled down, I know its only gotten easier since.